I was a bit disturbed, but not surprised, by his comments on Norwegians attitude towards welfare. He said one woman said, "I don't understand why Americans are ashamed of taking welfare, that is what government is there for." That is the way that citizens of socialist countries are conditioned to think; in America, we are (or once were) traditionally conditioned to believe that government is there to keep you free--not to help you, not to give you money, simply keep you free and leave you alone. This is the same attitude that our Norwegian friends share. Every time they have come to visit us, each has a beer in his hand every second of his stay. Why? Because it is so expensive, and so difficult to obtain in Norway, because the government runs the liquor business. Most of our Norwegian friends make their own moonshine because of this. They have to ask the government before they paint their house. All sorts of things like this. They think they are free, but I would say they are not. Everything is so expensive, most likely because everything is taxed so heavily that it cannot sell for any cheaper.
When my mom went rafting in Norway, she and the others in her group were given a wetsuit (or whatever it was) to change into. Then, everyone in the room just started changing into the suits, right there--men, women, kids...everyone. Obviously, this was not a comfortable situation for an American. Really odd. This reminds me a bit of what we talked about in sociology about Hmong culture having no word for "privacy." There are vast cultural differences even between Norway and Minnesota (Norway's "colony" as Eric put it).
Our friend Herman, on his first visit, wanted to drink some Mountain Dew, because they don't have that in Norway, but they are big into Mountain Dew, for some reason. So, when he first arrived, my mom took him to the Tom Thumb to buy some Mountain Dew, when they returned to the car, he said, "Wait," then took his Mountain Dew, leaned on the back of the car, and continued, "I want to take my first sip of Mountain Dew while looking over America." So, he took his first sip of Mountain Dew while looking over the fruited plains of the Tom Thumb parking lot.
Eric said he knew nothing of the language before he went to Norway. Here's just a few last stories about language...
My mom knew a little bit of Norwegian when she went there. One night, a family she was with shared some of their homemade alcohol with her. When she left, she wanted to be a polite guest, and thank them for their hospitality. Obviously, she had had a few to drink though, and the word for moonshine was not there, so she quickly Norwegianized a word and said, "Tak fer alcoholen."
I believe she was at a bar when the song "Take Me Home, Country Roads" by John Denver came on the radio. Every single person could sing all the words, but very few of them knew what they were singing.
Herman would always comment on the food we served him when he was visiting us. He would take a bite, say, "That was good" and continue eating. We had a little fun with him, and asked, "Is the next bite good? Or just that last one?"
The application of this would maybe be gaining a greater appreciation of cultural differences. His stories brought all of these stories and more to mind, all about the cultural differences between our culture and the Norwegians. We have been talking about this respect for other cultures throughout this semester, and this was a really interesting addition to our discussions.
