Sherry Turkle
wrote a book about the effect that technology has on relationships, entitled Alone Together. Turkle starts out the
book by talking about robots. She focuses on robots aimed at children and the
elderly that demand nurturing and attention, such as Furbies and Paros. In the second
half of the book, Turkle talks about technological communications, like texting
and social networking sites. Turkle makes the point that the way people are
interacting with technology is cheapening human relationships. Robots a
Facebook "friends" have changed the definition of friendship. Computers program
to respond to a person and texting have changed the definition of a
conversation.
The way in which
the world is interconnected is changing. People are connecting to more people
than was previously possible, but the connections are mostly very shallow. What
it looks like to be human is also changing. People interact in different ways
than previously and what is considered valuable has changed. Christians need to
evaluate whether these changes are good or bad. It needs to be determined
whether this new interconnectivity helps people support and interact with each
other in a Biblically good way or is doing the opposite. Evaluation, instead of
blindly accepting, is necessary.
I thoroughly enjoyed
reading this book. The psychologist perspective was very interesting and engaging.
I liked the way that the book approached the issue with case studies. Hearing
the opinions of all those people really enriched my understanding of the issue.
I found myself relating to a number of the people, particularly in the second
half of the book. At one point Turkle was writing about how people are
reluctant to make phone calls to each other, because it feels intrusive. I have
this problem as well. I also could relate to those who use technology
regularly, but do not want it to be that way forever. Face to face trumps Facebook.
Talking in person trumps texting. We need real personal interactions. It's part
of being human.
