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Well...this is going to be a short blog post. Due to the craziness of finals/Christmas I haven't really done a whole lot with EAG this week. The main thing that I have really started doing is drafting letters to send to these places I've been researching. Nothing too exciting. In some ways, writing letters to these places asking for donations is a lot harder than some might think. It's one's first impression to the company. Basically, if the letter sucks, then the company won't donate. But if the letter is both charming and professional at the time, it can garner a face-to-face meeting with the company, a donation, and quite possibly extended support for EAG. So really, it's a delicate job. Hopefully as an English major I'll be good at this. Good thing they have to go through Maggie first before I actually send them!

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But things are finally starting to come together and becoming actualities, rather than just something in my head that I'm researching. Other than that...not much to report. Merry Christmas to all, and I'll see you all next year!

Soo...to be completely honest, I haven't been doing much with my project lately. There's this little issue of CSP trying to take over my life that keeps getting in my way. But, I got chapter 2 done on time, and I learned a lot about what effects the self-esteem of teenage girls, and I even learned a couple things about myself in the process. It was great.

As a result, because of the insane amount of homework and Christmas concerts and whatnot, I haven't done much for EAG. Hopefully over Christmas break the boredom I'll have at home will give me opportunities to do a lot more. :)

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Since last week I talked about beads, which I kinda know something about, today I'm going to talk about something that I'm totally clueless about: Pashmina scarves. Apparently, pashmina is a type of cashmere that is made from some special kind of goat hair found in the Himalayas. Who knew? And I mean, I'm not that fond of scarves anyway. I hardly ever wear any accessories like that, they just get in the way when I try to do stuff. I do own a few though, I'll admit. I think I actually have a Pashmina scarf I got when we all went to the global market. The fact that it's made from goat hair is slightly creepy, but I think I'll just forget that fact. I prefer to not know exactly where my textiles come from.

Anyway, back to how these scarves relate to EAG. WELL, since EAG doesn't have a big demand for more modest prom dresses, the scarves are great alternatives for Somali girls whose culture doesn't allow them to wear the more revealing American dresses. Since the scarves are always a hot item, my mission is to find places that sell these scarves and ask them for donations. Online searching doesn't really work in this scenario, so basically I'm going to have to go looking around the Cities for these stores and scout them out to see if they'll work for donating. So once again...if anybody knows where to find this stuff...let me know. Most likely I'll be looking around in January when we return, since I need to get out of St. Paul for a good long while. I'll also be doing some more searching around my hometown, but given the location and population demographics of Elk River...I'm not expecting much. Finding the right stores to ask for donations isn't as easy as it seems - especially when the donations have to be as specific as EAG would like them.
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By the way...the title is a play on a quote from a Full House episode that was on recently. Just in case people were wondering where I get my weird titles from.

Beads, Beads, and more Beads.

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Well, since I last blogged, to be honest, not much has happened at EAG. We're all pretty much busy with the holiday season (except for me, as it feels like I'm writing essays for every class that are all due on the same day...*cough*Honors*cough*). Since my two major ideas have to be tweaked a bit, I've been back at the drawing board...or should I say, the beading table.

Researching beading stores in the Twin Cities area is harder than one would think. Besides looking for legit bead stores (as opposed to small hole-in-the-wall places), I also have to look at some that offer jewelry making classes. 
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Then after I narrow that search down, I have to find out all of the contact information and start writing letters or calling them. (Just as a refresher, the whole jewelry idea is to check with local beading stores that offer beading classes and seeing if they would be willing to donate the pieces from those classes to EAG). Somewhere in the midst of this chaotic process, I suppose it would also be a good chance to double check that the jewelry would be prom-appropriate, instead of...well, not prom appropriate (I think that concept is pretty self-explanatory). Two promising beading stores in the area that have seemed promising are the Bead Monkey and Bobby Bead. I'm also going to check around my hometown over break, because I know a lot of the crafty people up there.

Well, I guess that's all for now...doesn't sound too exciting or life-changing at the moment, I know. It's all going to be worth it when I see what happens at the boutique in April...

New Directions

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So...another week of brainstorming and being creative at EAG! This week I presented my two raw ideas to Maggie (i.e., the jewelry created by high schoolers and the prom problems faced by more conservative girls, such as the Somali population). The response that I got back from her was a little disheartening, but also a good thing as well.

The jewelry idea she loved; however, she pointed out a couple of points that I had not thought about before. First of all, how would an EAG beneficiary feel if at prom one of her classmates approached her and was like, "I made that necklace and donated it to that Ever After Gowns place!" Not something that would make a girl's self-esteem increase, I can tell you that. Also, there would be tax issues with public schools donating and such. Maggie suggested that instead of schools, I look into beading stores around the Twin Ctites, as they often hold jewelry making classes and such, and see if they would be willing to donate some of the proceeds to EAG. Time to start researching those ideas!

Maggie also liked my thinking about the quandry with Somali and other conservative girls.  She did say that EAg always provides a bunch of brightly colored and bedazzled scarves for these girls, and they're always a big hit. So instead of actually looking for extremely modest dresses, I'm thinking that I'm going to start looking for places that might be willing to possibly donate some scarves and such. (Sarah - if you happen to read this, we should talk sometime and maybe you could teach me a bit about Somali fashion and where to aquire such items. :D)

I'm still trying to come up with a really good idea to bring in shoes. So far, nothing brilliant yet, but I'm sure something will come to me.

Anyway, that's where my project is at this week! Time to really get down to business and start hitting this stuff hard (especially since I absolutely hate making calls and going in and talking to people and stuff).

Oh, I almost forgot...Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! Hope that everyone has a great time with their families (and eating the most delicious Thanksgiving food in the world - PUMPKIN PIE!!) Make sure to take time tomorrow for all of the beauty God has placed in your life, and all of the beauty He has placed in you. I thank God for each and every one of you weirdos that have decided to embark on this Honors adventure with me. I couldn't do it without you guys. :D

So last Saturday Heather and I went to a dress sort for EAG. It was basically what it sounded like - we sorted through dresses. LOTS of dresses. After a trip down the freeway to a storage facility in Bloomington, we go up to the second floor, walk through a few hallways of storage spaces that seems like it could be in a horror movie, before we turn the corner and are greeted by a splash of color. BAM!! There was no mistaking that we were in the right place. There were dresses of every size and color. There was glitter. There was food (including cookies). And there were women sorting through everything.

Our first objective was very simple. We had to first commandeer a rack of dresses, and then look at each dress individually, checking for damage and out-of-date styles. Heather's rack was full of black dresses, some of which included velvet, which got tossed in the Goodwill box right away. For the most part she had a lot of keepers. Me, on the other hand...I got the rack filled with dresses of this pale lavender color. While only a few were damaged, the main issue was style. I think that Lavender is officially the color of prom in the 90's. Once all of the fashion crimes were sorted through and taken out, it was fairly easy to go on to the next step.

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The next step was to order the dresses according to size. Sounds fairly simple, right? Not necessarily. If all of the dresses had the typical numerical numbering system on their tags, this would be so easy. The trouble comes in where one has to figure out what "size" a "medium" is, and whether or not it is bigger or smaller than another "medium." Heather and I had fun with this. It was pretty much a guessing game.

Once that was all done, Step 3 was to sort ALL of the dresses by size. This was where the mass chaos happened, as there was about 30 women walking around in a small hallway with an armful of dresses trying to get their dresses on the correct racks - it was quite challenging. It was probably the longest part of the whole process. After the madness ended (and about half of the volunteers left) the last part left to do was to sort the dresses by color. Heather and I were in charge of the size 10 dresses. It took us a while to sort them according to rainbow order, as we had to do A LOT of dress shuffling. It was also kinda confusing to determine what color some dresses were (for example, what does one do with a dress that looks pink at one angle, but orange from another? Or what does one do with that stupid lavender color? is it purple or blue?) After that, it was kind of like everyone took a breath cause it was FINALLY DONE - an hour and a half ahead of schedule, too. Heather and I grabbed some cookies and made our way back through the creepy hallways and left the storage facility. On the way home we proceeded to have an amazing adventure at Ikea, the Magical Wonderland of Home Furnishings. But that's another story for another time, :)

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Overall, I feel like the dress sort went really well. I got to meet the other board members. They were all fairly young women and come from all walks of life - on is currently getting her degree in fashion merchandising, one works for WCCO, and Maggie (the president) is a mom of 3 who's doing her master's thesis on the impact of service learning (boy, I lucked out with that one, didn't I?) This makes me even more excited to continue working with EAG as the sping boutique looms ever closer...  

Trailblazin'

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So these past couple weeks I've been working for Ever After Gowns, and I'm loving it.  I met with the president, Maggie, at Starbucks before I turned in my contract and we got along really well. She's such a passionate woman who really cares about giving girls a night as Cinderella who normally wouldn't be able to. I'm just amazed that the whole business is non-profit, and that no one, not even the board members, are paid any sort of salary. Everthing is strictly volunteer. And I think that that's pretty cool.

Since they've never really had an intern before, I'm kind of helping to create the position and (hopefully) pave the way for future interns.  Over the course of the next year, I basically have two main jobs. From now until about March I'm supposed to be researching creative ways to get donations and to bring a fresh "young" perspective to the organization.  Then from March until the botique in April, I'm going to be helping the volunteer coordinator, Jaclyn...well, coordinate volunteers (SIDE NOTE: If any of you girls are interested in possibly volunteering for the botique on April 17 or have dresses you want to donate, let me know and I'll get information for you!)

So far, the creative thinking has been going relatively well. Besides researching vendors to donate door prizes and such, I've had a couple of ideas that I feel are really worth something. First, EAG is always low on jewelry donations. I remembered that at my high school they offered jewelry making classes as an art credit. So my big idea was, why not check the local high schools who participate and send students to the botique and see if their art departmens have any one-of-a-kind jewelry pieces that they want to donate. My second idea that came to me was the prom problems that girls from and ethnic or a more conservative background might have. I mean, what do all the Muslim Somali students do at prom time? I know their culture does not allow some of the trends that we see becoming popular in prom fashion. My second objective will be to research options for them; just because a girl comes from a different background than everyone else doesn't mean that she can't feel like Cinderella on prom night.

So far, both of those projects are in the research stage. Depending on what Maggie thinks of these ideas depends on what direction I'll go in from there. Tomorrow there is going to be a big dress sort at EAG's storage facility in Bloomington that I (and possibly Heather) will be going to. Amidst all of the papers and things that I have all do at the same time on Monday, it'll be nice to be spending time sorting through gorgeous gowns on Saturday. I call it "Princess Therapy." But more about that later. For now I'm going to continue trailblazin' my way through the organization. Hopefully I'll come up with a few fresh ideas for EAG by the time I'm done!

If the glass slipper fits...

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SUCCESS!! My honors internship at Ever After Gowns is a go! After a long game of email tag with the president, Maggie Harris, we finally got to chat on the phone this afternoon.  We got everything squared away! I was literally jumping all over my room after I hung up the phone.  Basically, what I'll be doing is thinking of creative ways to get donations for the botique in April; once it gets closer to botique time, I'll be helping the volunteer director, Jaclyn, coordinate the volunteers for the botique.  Some people might think this sounds like a strange volunteer job, since I won't be working with the people in need as directly, but that doesn't make this internship any less important than anyone else's. Instead of seeing the fruits of my labor right away, I just have to wait a while to see the real impact I'm making in someone's life.

ever after gowns.jpgAnother reason why I am excited to be working the donation end of things is because that is where I need some help.  To be completely honest, I dislike the whole phone calling, asking for favors, and business fanagaling is not really my thing, but they are skills that I need to develop to some degree.

I am really excited to be working with them for the next few months, and hopefully everything will go relatively well.  Before embarking on this project, I prayed that God would help guide me to a place that would work for me.  Ever After Gowns just feels like the perfect fit, and everything worked out so smoothly. It works perfectly. Like Cinderella and her glass slipper...

Complications

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So I may be running into a bit of a problem with my "enchanted" project idea with Ever After Gowns.  The volunteer coordinator, Jaclyn, and I have been in email contact. After a meeting of the EAG Board of Dircetors last Sunday, they were all very interested and excited about having me possibly intern there.  So I sent my resume to Jaclyn, who then forwarded it to the president.  That was about a week and a half ago. I have not heard anything. Since our project contracts are due in a little over a week, needless to say I'm a little bit worried. I'm starting to doubt whether or not I should go to plan B.

My plan B is working at PLUS Time.  This would be an advantage on so many levels.  I would be able to get some hours for my education portfolio, and it would be more towards the same sort of thing that I'll actually be doing with my life. The downside, however, is that I'm not nearly as passionate about that as I was about EAG. This may or may not make this project more burdensome, since I'm not as passionate about it.  I emailed Professor Roth today, asking her opinion on this whole situation, and I have not heard back from her yet.  So I guess I'll just have to wait and see what God has in store for me with this project. I'm sure it will all work out somehow.

Well, this is blog numero dos for my project! To update the world on my progress...

27dresses_16.jpgI met with Professor Rock last week to present my idea about working at Ever After Gowns...I was really really nervous, because frankly, I didn't know if she was going to take me and my "princess" idea seriously. Luckily though, she did! She was actually really excited for me to work with this place, the only concern being that I'll get enough hours to cover the project.  I emailed the person in charge of volunteers at EAG, and they have yet to get back to me. Still, I am pretty excited about this! And I have NEVER EVER really been psyched about volunteering before. NHS in high school was almost the death of me; I have no time.  I have a really good feeling about this though, and the social issues (impact of poverty on teens, and teenage self-esteem, specifically girl's) are something that I feel quite strongly about.  Hopefully God will use this agency to help soothe that vocation vacency ache that I've been feeling ever since I left camp. Prayers that this works out would be much appriciated!

By the way...the title and picture is from one of my favorite movies, 27 Dresses. Hopefully I won't encounter TOO many horrible, hideous dresses during my time with EAG...

Vocation Longing

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To be honest, I am kind of lost with the whole project thing. I don't know what to do or where to go.  I have no vehicle to get around the cities with, and I'm a little more than trepidated about the public transportation system.

As I thought about it a little bit more though, I have something that over-rides every single one of my worries: my passion.  God has placed in my heart a passion for working with middle and high school students. I enjoy working with children of all ages, but it is with the older set that my skills lie.  I have always felt like God was calling me to work with kids, but I did not realize the depth of this calling until after working at camp all summer. It was extremely hard for me to be pulled away from my vocation. Hopefully God will lead me to some place where this ache and longing to fullfil my vocation can be soothed somewhat. 

Like I said earlier, I haven't really had any particular place in mind to work.  However, last night I came across an organization in the Twin Cities called Ever After Gowns.  This non-profit organization collectes and dry cleans old prom gowns for under-privilaged teenage girls.  A lot of the girls the go through the program come from poor and violent backgrounds, and may not get to have a lot of times in their life where they are able to feel like a princess.  Ever After seeks to change that. In the spring they set up a "botique" with all of the gowns they have collected throughout the year, and assign each girl that qualifies to a personal shopper, who helps them through the dress-choosing process, the make-up and hair stations, and finding the perfect pair of shoes.  I have no idea how or if I'll even be able to work with this organization at all, but I got so excited while looking through the website.  Low self-esteem is oftentime a really big issue with teenage girls, no more so than around prom time. Although it may seem silly to some people, getting dressed up in a pretty gown, being pampered, and being made to feel like a princess does wonders for a teenage girl's self esteem; because of Ever After, many Twin Cities girls who would never get this opportunity are now able to.  I would absolutely love to make a difference in a girl's life, and make their dreams seem a little bit closer to them.

Although I know that this isn't the most "traditional" idea, or that it might not work out, I am still excited about it nonetheless. And if it turns out that God needs my gifts at PLUS Time (my second choice) more, then so be it. That's kinda where my project is as of right now.